CONSIDERATION - a reflection

I'm sure all escorts love to go on about how much we prefer longer dates—but honestly, it's true. What could be more congenial than spending deep quality time with someone?
Sitting across the table, gently caressing your inner calf beneath it whilst you both sip some nice deep red wine and just talk. You know, really connect over gorgeous conversation and delicious food. There's nothing like it.

Anthony Bourdain is often quoted here because he simply got it. He said—and this is a direct quote—"You learn a lot about someone when you share a meal together." Wouldn't you love to learn a little about me and share just a little bit about yourself? Being an independent ebony escort means you're truly in the people business. What could be better than connecting, even if it seems fleeting, with the person sat directly across from you?

Now, I started this blog post for a reason. I wanted to talk about something that means a whole lot to me: consideration. It's one of the qualities I've noticed my clients possess. Even from the initial meeting, where we are not so well acquainted, it's become standard practice for clients to bring me a little something special. Often these items I cherish and look back on fondly—as tokens reminding me of the individual who gave them to me in the first instance.

There's no feeling quite like it when you realise a complete stranger has taken the time and attention to do a deep dive on you—looking through my website, checking in on my Twitter webpage (forgive me, it's X now), reading old posts, taking notes—all in an attempt to get to know the courtesan they discovered behind a screen.

We live in a digital age where we are more interconnected than ever before.
There's no need to write a letter or send a handwritten card; a simple text will do, supposedly.
So when you, dear reader, take that additional step—to serve up a gesture by taking me to that Hans Zimmer concert I tweeted about, or purchasing a wonderful bouquet that matched something I mentioned weeks prior—it doesn't go unnoticed.
These small acts only serve to boost your standing when it comes to lasting impressions.

It's what separates just a client from a favourite—someone who actually holds some space in my heart. To those generous, kind and considerate gentlemen: this is for you.
Thank you for consideration.

For those I'm yet to meet, what are you waiting for?

aSHLEY X